Clare Consultation, LLCPosted on March 3, 2013 by Mary Clare
Unlikely Connection – Natural Kindness
On Wednesday of last week I heard a story. It was a story of a little boy, a four-year-old skipping and playing and laughing because he had completed two chemo-therapy treatments and for the first time in almost as long as he could remember, he didn’t feel icky. He felt great! Despite his cancer, and almost as if he’d forgotten he had it, he wanted to jump and run and swing with… Read More
Posted on January 27, 2013 by Mary Clare
On Coming Full Circle
On a walk through Laurelhurst Park, I run into … well, first the bouncy affectionate force field of a German Shepherd named Roman and then the woman at the other end of his substantial chain leash, my friend Raquel. “Hi!” we both call out at the same time, finally able to identify one another across the giddy animation of 75 pounds of smiling, jumping, licking canine. “Roman!” Raquel’s voice is stern as… Read More
Posted on December 31, 2012 by Mary Clare
Thirteen Ways We’re Not Helpless – Notes from the Edge of the Cliff
There are a lot of things that could be said about right now, today, December 31, 2012. For starters, we in the Northern Hemisphere are in the darkest time of year. In Portland, Oregon the days are short, and most often gray and wet. Nonetheless, we, like all of us, are in a great series of collectively signified moments that invite suspension of despair and the joyful tending of possibility. On December… Read More
Posted on December 18, 2012 by Mary Clare
What do we learn? What do we teach? The days after Sandy Hook
Love that takes us out of ourselves and binds us to something larger. President Obama Newtown, CT 12-16-2012 The days move by in this the darkest season for the Northern Hemisphere. Saturday was the day after, Sunday two days after, Monday three, Tuesday four …. These days will pass into months and years, and those of us still drawing breath in these wild and precious lives will continue. As we do, we… Read More
Posted on December 10, 2012 by Mary Clare
Today’s December 10
It’s the end of the day, and unlike most days between November and July the sky outside my window is vivid with sunset colors – you know those indescribable shades of pink and purple, hints of orange, red, yellow, even bits of green. I’m in Portland, OR where I live and work – and walk and dance and chit chat with neighbors and laugh and cry with friends. Today I’ve done all… Read More
Posted on December 3, 2012 by Mary Clare
Birdsong in Oregon and VOICES FROM DECATUR
Here we are in December – already. Here we are nearing another turn of season; this time to winter. I’ve been noticing how the calls of birds really do become less present as the days shorten and the weather cools. Maybe it’s an effect of spending the last four years listening to what everyday people have to say. It’s for sure not boredom or lack of distraction. But here’s what noticing the… Read More
Posted on November 26, 2012 by Mary Clare
Amidst the Fuss about Mexican Immigration and Gay Marriage
Last night, I stood rinsing 50 plates, stacking in a small tower the ones that didn’t fit in the first run of the dishwasher. Behind me a loosely coordinated team of cooks fussed over flan one woman had made. “I wasn’t expecting 50…!” she whispered. “Loaves and fishes time,” said the mountainous man with the big hands and superb skill with savory and spice. These are other things I heard – “Is… Read More
Posted on November 19, 2012 by Mary Clare
Neighbors at War and the Possibility of Peace
Today. Right now. Palestinian people and all people in and around the area of Israel known as Gaza — the Syrian people, Afghan people and people in too many other places on the planet to list here are in immediate danger. Some are dying. People = children, youth, and adults including mothers, fathers, grandparents, great grandparents. These people have pets, they live in places where other animals live, they drink water and… Read More
Posted on September 30, 2012 by Mary Clare
Plane Delays and Collaboration across Cultures
It is Sunday afternoon. I’m sitting in the Alumni Center of Austin College in Sherman, TX. I’m here for a few days to support a conversation and the development of a relationship between this small independent liberal arts school and Native American Tribes and communities. My job is to keep the listening and speaking going – and to join in the identification of steps to be taken toward building friendship and collaboration… Read More
Posted on September 17, 2012 by Mary Clare
Libya, the Chinook Nation and Who We are as Americans
Captions beneath three undated photos provided to the Chinook Observer by Ambassador Chris Stevens’ mother read: Chris Stevens. Stevens was among four Americans who died Tuesday night, Sept. 11, 2012 in Benghazi after they were attacked by gunfire and rocket-propelled grenades. Stevens’ death deprives the United States of someone widely regarded as one of the most effective American envoys to the Arab world. Chris Stevens, the ambassador to Libya who was killed in… Read More